When Ally had come back in you had had time to think up some other emberassing idea. As she walks by your room you call out to her.
“Hey Ally! Thanks for doing that.”
“You’re welcome.”
“I want to show you something.”
I started swinging the coin and staring into her eyes
“You feel more and more relaxed more and more relaxed” I kept repeating until she was under.
I couldn’t be leave how easy this was. now I wanted to see how far I could push this.
“Ally do you ever have trouble holding your pee?”
“Not really...sometimes when I sneeze a couple of drops come out but not very often”
“Good to know. but you are starting to realize every time you sneeze or cough or pick up something heavy, like your full backpack you are going to pee a little. Not much just about a teaspoon. nod if I am right”
Ally nods.
“You are really embarrassed about it because it makes you feel a little babyish. And you don’t want anyone to know. You cant bring yourself to talk about it with anyone except me. The next time you pee in your panties you will need to talk to me about it as soon as you can get me alone. You can’t think of any solutions for the problem but I have good ideas. ok nod if you understand.”
Ally nods.
“when you are talking to me at all you will be so embarrassed you won’t be able to think of the words you usually use to talk about urinating or going to the bathroom and will only use the words I suggest in their place. nod if you understand.”
Ally nods.
“When you use the words for urine that I suggest you will feel more relaxed and calm”
Nod if you understand.
“Good when I snap my fingers you will wake up and not remember any of this conversation.”
“Nod if you understand”
Ally nods
Kyle snap my fingers.
Ally blinked a couple of times and peered at the coin in your hand.
“huh An old coin, I wonder if it-
Ally sneezes
Her face goes from post sneeze relief to very embarrassed. her hand that she caught the sneeze in automatically drops and covers her croch. She looks at you wide eyed for a second.
“Are you ok sis?” Kyle says.
“I need to talk to you about...something...”
she hangs her head her hair dropping and covering her face
“What’s wrong?”
“I...”
Kyle waits for her
“I have a problem when I sneeze I......”
Ally points at her between her legs with the hand that was covering herself still not looking at you.
you look and the fabric of her exercise shorts are a little darker between her legs.
“I...don’t... I’m so embarrassed ”
She is kind of crying
“oh Sis! You can talk to me about it take a deep breath and tell me about it.”
Ally takes a couple of deep breaths “I...I’m so...embarrassed I can’t even say...”
she points at her damp shorts again.
“ok maybe it would be easier if we used a different word?”
Ally nods her hair still hiding her face.
“ok what if we call it either going potty or peppering?”
Ally glances up at you for a second and nods and takes another deep breath.
“I’m not 2”
“Just try it.”
“I am not going to say...”
“Lately every time I sneeze or pick up my backpack I...”she takes another deep sigh “I go potty. ” big sigh
Quietly she adds “Please please don’t tell anyone.”
Kyle says “It’s ok You can trust me.” as he moves in for a hug.
As you squeeze her she says “not so tight. I still need....to go potty. “
“Ok, Go potty and then we can think of a solution for this.”
Ally nods and turns and goes for the bathroom.