Amber changed the sentence and made it normal for Mary to wear diapers. It still didn’t change her outlook on wearing them. It was normal for her, yet she still felt embarrassed by them and she didn’t know why.
“Dr. Amber? Why do I feel ashamed of wearing these? I mean, it’s normal for us to wear them, so I don’t know why I feel so embarrassed to be seen in them”
Amber was confused by what she meant by “normal for us” until she looked back down at her own diaper. She suppressed her giggles at the fact that she was in one and went through some routine questioning.
“Okay, Mary, go through how you feel, when these feelings started, and I’ll jot these down on my phone as notes” Amber enjoyed doing this, and at some point Mary will give the phone something to edit.
“Well, it felt normal up until high school. Something about moving to high school made it weirder. Maybe I was just jealous of the girls that had the pull-ups and I was still in diapers”
The phone prepared her new sentence “Teenager Mary still feels abnormal because she’s in diapers”
Bingo!