Making peace with things... really isn't all that hard, to be honest. Objectively speaking, you have a job you're starting to enjoy a lot more than your old one, and it keeps you in good shape. The other girls at the club are a lot more real than your old friends ever were. You can get free drinks while watching those new friends strip... and yeah, you're a woman and you just had sex with this guy here, but... it was really good. Being held afterwards is real nice too. What's the downside here, that it's "gay?" That having sex as a woman is gonna get your man card revoked? Because really, you lost that card months ago, and it hasn't really hurt you beyond the way you reacted. Well, and the periods, but whatever. You look better as a woman though, and sexual identity is kind of out the window when nobody's a "real man" for more than a few hours a day. You can't even really be sure this guy here started as one.
So... yeah. You just go to sleep, have another round of kinda mind-blowing sex with this guy the next day. Things don't work out with him in the long run, or the next few people you wound up dating, but that's life sometimes. In the long run, you go on to have a pretty good one.
The End