It was apparent that you were Vinnia and not Vinnie, although being named after your namesake was not a mistake either. Over the years as you developed out of the crib you seemed more distant with your mother but loved spending time with your dad... While you were unsure of Stezian... as a baby your ego hadn't developed much so most of your impressions were based on impressions from your past life. The connection you had with your father, the distrust of sorts you had for Christian, the uncertainty you had about Stezian as your brother, and Calcia... She often came over to help babysit you and Stezian, but was a family friend through and through. She liked you a lot, and would often tickle you, play, and baby you when she could but... You felt embarrassed.
While human you perceived yourself to be older and more mature than her... Which socially you believed yourself to be an adult and her a kid which was... semi-true in elf-society. You were a big physical adult and could be trusted to do simple, but brute force tasks which an adult could accomplish without magic. Calcia wasn't, and still had a lot to learn for adult elf society... but she had a lot more lived experience and learned knowledge than you ever could as a student for decades if not a century or so. Your mind knew she should be someone to look up to with a wealth of knowledge and experience, and yet your spirit feels like you should be taking her out for ice cream or driving her around town... So now that your Vinnia... She was obviously an older elf, but a part of you wanted to take care of her... quite a bit... Despite having absolutely no knowledge or ability to do so. Thus when she was babying you it felt wrong, but not... Although thanks to her you learned to speak and walk faster than average... She just kept teasing you so much about "Can you say Sissy?" this or "Can you make it over here?" that that... You just did them feeling motivated to prove her... right? You guessed? Your mind wasn't the most developed but you didn't want her underestimating you either. Then when she pampered you for being able to do those things your face was beet red from a sort of embarrassment which made her want to pamper you even more... Thus now you were a toddler, or at an elven toddler in capability. Most of the terrible 2's and such trends ended while still a baby. Your brain was about as developed as a toddler's, but you still had a lot more experience than a toddler. Plus being able to move on your own a bit more allowed you to see more... and your multicolored eyes could see a lot.