You go into the bathroom and put on your gel deodorant, and spray on some Axe musk.
Then it hits you.
You don't mind the deodorant, or the strong manly smell it gives off. You also don't mind that your wearing boxers.....they're actually comfortable in them, and you like the way you look. The bears never gave you the option of wearing your old dorky breifs, but that's ok..
Well, you've changed a little, but your personality hasn't changed THAT much.
After some more weight lifting, the next thing is when Grizz rides you on an ATV through the wooods. It's scary and you don't have a choice, but you like it a little.
THen, the party. "You won't being doing any drinkin', of course, but this will be a good time so you can be more social- your still too damn shy" says Grizz as you come up to the clearing.
There are about 30 men, and a few boys a little bit older than you. You also see a style you really want
A 20 year old has a haircut called a high n' tight, where it's shaved on the sides and has short-medium hair in the middle. Combined with a goatee, you decide that your going to have that style for now, and on the way back home you ask Grizz to help you with it on the way home
"What about your Gramps' style?" he says
You reply that it will proabbly be a couple of years until you can grow sideburns and a moustache like that, so in the meantime you'd be pretty happy with that manly style. Mabye the last year of your "training" you can adopt you old Gustav's style...
Grizz laughs and grins.....